Albeit the Property Index service is generally viewed as a newcomer agency, (they were established only in March 2007), they have very quickly proven their mettle. Actually, they are a incredibly easy-going agency focusing on proposing guidance to any person intending to sell, buy, rent or let realty almost anywhere in the world. They pledge to be of assistance to you to discover squarely what’s required quick and, of course, sans pain.

Estate can easily be found all over the world now, possibly the elite area being estate available in France. It should be easy as one-two-three to catalogue the tremendous real estate available in France, the argument for looking into realty here is real property for sale and the opportunity of spending your life amid such a peppy population. It’s one of the truly trendy countries now, and considering the scenic splendor and great climate surrounding you, who could say no! Estate in France is very rich in history and culture, this part of the world has been and still is home to various sophisticated nations.

The Property Index site has a vast range of property for sale in France, view the range online.

Some 20 years ago you would find only very few of British people keen on real estate in France. Ask just about anyone who has moved to France and they’ll certainly back this up. There’s many people who would would view it as a passing trend and others would view it as a close to an infatuation! Customers that are willing to remove to this place will range from young well to do couples in search of a challenge to seniors meaning to have a break and enjoy themselves. Do bear in mind, though, that there may well be drawbacks when looking to acquire real estate in a foreign country - there are obviously a million actions to manage when budgeting, calling in or finalising. If you miss out on one single minute procedure that is certain to escalate huge drawbacks plus, of course, more important, financial damage.

As can be counted on with this popular destination, real estate might be extraordinarily pricey in this location and this, of course, is simply a consequence of the increasing market pressure. Yet, patrons are presently pretty spoilt in a region so full of phenomenal geography and beaming panorama. It patently has the whole enchilada a patron could need, and then some.

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As we saw in our previous mini-article, children acquire language through a subconscious process during which they are unaware of grammatical rules.

Their interaction with the environment (i.e. primarily parents and people they have constant contact with) added to their innate capacity to acquire language results in a perfect or almost perfect mastery of their native tongue in a relatively short period of time.

In other words, their need to communicate added to their innate capacity plus the exposure they get from their environment drive their language acquisition process.

In short, it is through interaction and meaningful communication that they acquire the language.

What is important to highlight here is that although this is the process we all go through while acquiring our mother tongue, this mechanism is not restricted first language acquisition. And that is great news for us!!!

In a second language setting , that is to say, with people learning a second language and of any age group, by applying the same principles that rule first language acquisition we can make our students “acquire” the language naturally.

What does this mean?

That to gain mastery of a second language it is necessary to have a classroom in which…

a)communication, NOT grammar is the absolute focus of the class AND

b)everything presented must be meaningful to the student.

Reflection:

Think about your Spanish learning for a moment.

Have your lessons revolved around communication and meaningful interaction?

Do you feel the approach used by your teachers has been appropriate in the light of current research? Explain

This is the end of the second in our series of mini-articles on language acquisition.

By Julio Foppoli Teacher of English as a Second Language, Teacher of Spanish as a Second Language, Creator and owner of http://www.esaudio.net, an online educational website with a technological edge, specialized in the teaching of Spanish as second language via audio-conference to native speakers of English from all over the world. The website offers free listening comprehension activities with Spanish from all of the Spanish speaking world.

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Note: This article makes special reference to the effect of learning syles in the learning of Spanish but the principles are valid for all language learning.

LEER ES PODER!
Learning Spanish!

How can you best learn Spanish? It depends on your particular approach to learning. Take a look at the following approaches to learning Spanish. But if you already know where you are, you can skip the following reflections and go back to see what is available for your level ( beginning, intermediate, or advanced ) in Spanish, to sort and search for your specific needs, as well as to read reviews and summaries of the books that strike your interest.

DIFFERENT STYLES

Non-Virgins: Those who studied another language should use the skills they acquired with that language. They know what a conjugation is. They know that verbs are different from nouns. Their previous study gives them some mental hooks to help with their Spanish. They should not throw away their advantage by working on Spanish in a completely conversational manner. They should try to get an overview of some commonplaces in the language. They should get an “old fashioned” grammar and lean heavily on the tables to organize their thought. This type of learner should “invent” Spanish on the basis of what they know of the other language. They will remember a little of the structure of the other language. For example, what is the relation between adverbs and adjectives in Spanish? What is the most common way to express what happened yesterday (past tense)? If the other language is a Western language, they should observe the possible similarities. If the other language is non-Western, the very differences can be their starting point to learn the counterparts in Spanish. In short, they should study “the wrong way”. This is not for everyone. The learner should know his or herself.

Brains: These folks will operate much like the Non-Virgins. They will progress better by concentrating on the little points that intrigue them such as the difference in usage between the prepositions “por” and “para” and the verbs “ser” and “estar”. To master one or two of these elements so characteristic of Spanish will help the learn build on their conquests to go on to master other things. This analytical approach will be of great utility to the persons with the cerebral learning style.

Motor Mouths: The persons who are not afraid to try out their Spanish will progress very rapidly. These folks probably have a little genetic edge over the rest of us. However, we all should try to put together the pieces as we learn them. If there is no opportunity to talk with someone else, then we can tape our attempts. There are two parts to this early talking practice: confidence and pronunciation. The most important thing is to gain confidence or to be thick-skinned enough to speak your piece, knowing that the exercise will pay dividends. However, we should not put off working on our pronunciation until it is too late and we have given up on acquiring a valid accent. There are too many people who after living years in a Spanish speaking country are perfect in their grammar but who have a typical or even stereotypical English accent. There is no need for that. Spanish is perfectly regular in its phonetics. Motor mouths should also work on their accent!

People People: Anyone who likes being with people and who has a need to communicate will progress quickly in learning a language. Many outgoing, friendly people learn language in the “motor mouth” mode. However, other people without the gifts of the motor mouths can gain valuable exposure to the language by just following their social instincts. These folks, however, should not overlook the need to speak correctly. Although they are not interested in traditional grammar in the same way the “brains” are, they must work at speaking correctly. We all know people who learned English years ago, but still say things like, “I am interested to go with you”. You don’t want to spend your life in Spanish with a similar easily corrected error. Learn it right as soon as you can. The people people have to stay curious about the language.

Learn-while-doing People: I was told once that the only way to learn French was to sleep with a French woman. The idea behind this is that we learn the expressions and words for the activities we are interested in. People who learn like this try to get their Spanish-speaking friends to accompany them as they cook or fix their car. They find that they learn better when their whole body is involved in learning the new words and phrases. For example, the person who learns the word “serrucho” while sawing a board will remember it better than the person (see the “word collector”) who just learns the vocabulary from a list.

Word Collectors: This person may be great at crossword puzzles (Crucigramas) in Spanish but rarely gets to speak it. If you find yourself learning words and not getting any further, break out of it! We once had a houseguest, a young man from Spain who came to learn English. There were times when our family would be talking Spanish, and he would echo all the Spanish words with their English equivalents. He had a great vocabulary but never got around to talking English. This kind of learner should alway make sure that they make up sentences to practice using the new words they learn. They can combine their ability with vocabulary with the “divide and conquer” tactic. They should not only invent sentences to use the new words; they should run through diferent grammatical constructions as the setting for their vocabulary.

Divide and Conquer People: Every learner of a foreign language has to learn to incorporate the learning style of dividing and conquering into their own style. If they are “brains” they should concentrate on one grammatical turn of phrase, such as conditions contrary to fact, (If my grandfather hadn’t died, he’d be alive today!) until they can handle it.
The people people should repeat in the same conversation the new expression that they just heard. The same goes for all the others. The only way to learn a language is by following the “swiss cheese” method, nibble away at the things you don’t know, and master them until they are all gone.

Lost Latinos: This person should try to remember the nursery rhymes that they might have learned in Spanish. They should run over the names of their cousins and uncles. All of this will loosen up their rusty language skills. They should listen to how others speak “spanglish” and try to figure out the proper way to say things. They should make a game of trying to spot the influence of English in the Spanish they hear at home or in the barrio. This detective work will make them more aware of correcting whatever bad habits they have picked up. However, don’t think that these persons have all the advantages. The person learning from scratch will probably spell Spanish words better than those who know a little Spanish. I’m not sure why.

What works for EVERYONE… There are two activities that will help everyone, no matter what their learning style, move forward rapidly: They are: 1. Passive Listening, and 2. Pattern Response Drills.

1. Passive Listening. Everyone should keep the Spanish radio on as much as possible. Keep the radio or TV on while you doing other things. It has to be the sea of sound that you swim in while you are beginning your study of Spanish. You don’t have to concentrate on it; you are not listening to try to understand. After a while you won’t hear it but it will be affecting you. Little by little you will begin to anticipate the rhythm of the language, even before you understand everything. You will also begin to recognize certain words. You will begin to hear “beyond” the differences in pronunciation of different people and recognize the underlying word. Once you clearly hear a word or phrase, you can look it up and progressively expand your vocabulary.

2. Pattern Response Drills. You have to run through all the permutations of the new expressions that you learn. For example, suppose you just learned to say. “Pedro tiene cuatro aos” rather than translating from the English incorrectly, “Pedro es cuatro”. Now to make this new element of the language stick with you, you should go on substituting different ages and the names of different people. You have to be able to say comfortably, “Mara tiene cuatro aos.” “Juan tiene ocho aos.” “Yo tengo treinta aos.” “Cuntos aos tienes t?” “Nosotros tenemos cuarenta aos.” This type of drill is necessary for all the different learning styles.

Do you want to return to look at beginning ; intermediate , or advanced books? Or you can check out other Books ON Spanish at: http://www.bookslibros.com/spanishbooks.php to help you out.

Or do you want to see our books IN Spanish? You will find books on health, the family, self help, literature, etc. and the possibility to search for any other topic. Check out http://www.bookslibros.com/LibrosEnEspanol.php

Kids Can Learn Spanish! Take a look at: http://www.bookslibros.com/SpanishForNinos.htm

Frank Gerace Ph.D has lived and worked in Latin America on Educational and Communication Projects. He currently teaches English in New York City at La Guardia College/CUNY. He invites learners of Spanish of all levels and styles to visit him at: www.bookslibros.com/spanishbooks.php

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The Nokia N73 has proved a real winner for Nokia since its release in May 2006. Like other similarly priced models from Nokia the visual design is fairly contemporary and would appeal to a very broad range of customers.The N73 from Nokia is a sleek and stylish mobile handset. With this mobile phone Nokia have built something which is pretty well featured for the price.

The Nokia N73 is has bluetooth, making interactivity with a range of up to date mobile accessories very convenient. The ring-tones enabled on the N73 are Polyphonic (64 channels), MP3 including a vibrating tone . The Nokia N73 is compatible with 2G GSM 850 / 900 / 1800 / 1900 and 3G UMTS 2100 . A 3.15 MP, 2048×1536 pixels, Carl Zeiss optics, autofocus, video(CIF), flash; secondary VGA video call is integrated into this handset camera. A WAP 2.0/xHTML, HTML browser allows this mobile handset to be used for mobile Internet access. This handset can be bought in, Silver Grey, Deep Plum, Frost White, Metallic Red and Black (Music Edition). We found the N73 pretty compact, fitting nicely into the pocket. This phone weighs just 116 g,. The screen is a TFT, 256K colors. In terms of the all important battery cell duration the Nokia N73 has 6:00 talk time and 350 hours reserve charge. The battery that is shipped with the N73 is a Standard battery, Li-Ion 1100 mAh (BP-6M ). The N73 also features a few extras, for example:

This is now quite an old mobile handset, but still does a great job. If you can find one, going cheap in an end of line deal you may steal yourself a real bargain.

There are many incentives on offer to todays phone users. For instance by using a comparison site you can even get a mobile phone with free line rental for 12 months or a free Xbox 360.

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Have you ever wondered how in the heck you’re going to do it? You are a lawyer who wants to make partner, an accountant, an engineer or other professional and part of your business plan is that you have to attract business customers? You’ve always detested selling, and you can’t see yourself doing it! As a matter of fact, sales people are a HUGE turn off to you!!!

Yet, you HAVE to bring in customers!!!

What ARE you going to do?

Many of my current or former clients fit the above description. Many of them finally contacted me, a coach, when they were in trouble because they had NO CLUE where to start. They decided that they did need help, and they realized that only a professional could rescue the mess that they’ve made.

And guess what? They survived! And not only did they survive, but they thrived! As soon as they realized that they didn’t need to change their personality, become a raving fan, or over the top, they relaxed and settled into learning what they had to do.

I’ll take you through a typical client and what they learn to do.

Kirk was a guy who found me in one of my Charisma classes! He was basically a smart fellow who was trying to make partner in his law firm. He had been told upon his hiring that he’d be responsible for attracting business to his company. He bluffed his way through the interview by mentioning how many people that he knew and how many big cases he had worked on successfully. He didn’t mention that the business wasn’t his, or that he was TERRIFIED of calling all of the people that he knew and asking for business!

When Kirk and I finally got together I asked him to start by naming all of his strengths. We went over all of the benefits that any of his clients or future clients would get by working with him. I had him post these in his office so he’d never doubt how talented he really is in work.

Next, we outlined what sorts of clients he should secure and then wrote a list of any current or former friends or colleagues that he knew. We developed an information sheet on each of them which would be later transferred to a contact management system such as ACT or Goldmine. On each of the sheets, Ralph had to go and write about the person. He wrote down anything he knew about them professionally or personally. These ranged from where they went to school to their spouses names, to their hobbies.

Next, we put them in order from A Accounts ( HUGE!!!) down to D accounts (Barely worth calling) and everyone in between. When all was said and done, Ralph had a list of about 25 people on the A list and those were the ones that we focused on.

Those names went into the computer. We then called and got all of their current information such as emails, secretaries names, firms, etc. We then wrote a letter that was sent to each of them announcing his new position and then said that Ralph would soon be giving a follow up call to say a quick hello. The letter was written in a casual manner, and not too formal. It definitely did NOT look like a form letter from a law firm!

Over time, Ralph redeveloped these people into friends. He did it by meeting them to play basketball, going to networking events with them, or inviting them to political speeches. He was able to get tickets for a few of them to different events and basically became a resource to the whole legal profession for most of them. Ralph became a FRIEND to these individuals, their firms and as a result, guess what happened?

Ralph started bringing in business of course! Not only that, but his bosses wanted to know what he was doing and how it all started. Needless to say, a few of his co workers were in the position to hire a coach and we duplicated Ralph’s experience.

Developing into a sales professional is a scary thought for someone who is afraid of sales. But turning into a resource for your friends and colleagues is not only fun, but a great way to learn and grow your business. And if you get stuck, call me! I’ll help you through!

Contact: Mary at mary@marygardner.com or web: www.marygardner.com

Mary Gardner can be reached at www.marygardner.com

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I first taught this technique in 1998. While there have been tons of improvements since then, today I still see copy on so many websites, sales letters or emails using a language that only the person who wrote them understands.

People still seem to ignore their readers.

Abraham Maslow once commented, “If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.” Abraham Maslow may have been a psychologist, but he probably knew more about copywriting and particularly selling than what most people cared to admit.

Even now, most of the copy I critique disobey this important rule the most. Their sales message doesn’t communicate with their readers, particularly at THEIR level. Now, I’m not talking about a socioeconomic or educational level. I’m talking about the level at which they understand and, above all, make buying decisions.

They fail to use what I call “upwords.”

It’s an acronym that means…

“Universal Picture Words Or Relatable, Descriptive Sentences.”

Upwords are words that paint vivid pictures in the mind, or expressions that describe an idea to which the mind of your reader (or prospect) can relate to.

I once took a communications course in which I discovered an interesting example of the way the mind works. As part of a given lesson, a videotape was shown of a televised newscast during which a journalist was about to give a live report on a fire that was devastating a large forest.

The news anchor in the television newsroom said: “We now take you to Sally Smith, who’s in the station’s helicopter flying above the scene of the fire.” He then turned around to face the background screen, which showed a live bird’s-eye view of the raging fire.

He asked: “Tell us, Sally, how big is the fire?”

In a voice partially drowned by the whizzing sound of helicopter blades, Sally reports: “John, it’s so big, it’s covering well over 140 acres of land — now that’s about 200 football fields back-to-back for you and me.”

As you can see, people think in pictures, not in words and certainly not in numbers (unless it is told to do exactly that). The mind hates confusion. It will naturally translate words or phrases into a visual equivalent.

For instance, if I told you to think of a garbage can, you’re not going to think of the letters “G,” “A,” “R,” etc. Your mind will automatically visualize some sort of garbage can.

Microsoft and MacIntosh dominate the marketplace in operating systems because, rather than typing some elaborate command for your computer to execute, you can simply use your mouse, point to an icon that represents the command (or program) and click.

Icons represent commands, which are translated into programs (i.e., codes or languages) that the computer understands. In the same way, the mind works very much like a computer does.

People who know little about computers will likely have a difficult time understanding the various written commands, scripts and codes that the computer needs to process. But on the other hand, most of use can easily identify the icons that symbolize them.

Similarly, the brain instantly translates the information it receives into something it can easily understand and execute — something it already knows and can easily refer to. Albeit a quick one, there is always a translation process going on. And we must be aware of that.

The challenge facing marketers is certainly that of ensuring that their copy communicates effectively to its audience, especially when communicating the benefits of an offer is at the heart of making profitable sales. The “big test,” therefore, is to put ourselves in our reader’s shoes.

It is important to communicate using a language that people in your target market can easily understand and appreciate. It is Mark Twain who once said, “Numbers don’t stick in the mind; pictures do.” So, the more you use upwords in your copy, the more your reader will not only grasp what you’re trying to convey but also appreciate it at a more intimate level.

And THAT is the level I was referring to, earlier.

Upwords are words and phrases that help messages to be easily read, understood and interpreted by the majority of the people to whom the message is targeted, like with the use of mental imagery, examples, analogies, metaphors, picture words, etc.

For example, a challenge among cosmetic surgeons is the fact that people will call for a quote over the phone when a doctor needs to see the patient beforehand to make an assessment.

But obviously, cosmetic surgery is an uncommon process. People don’t understand why doctors can’t simply give out quotes over the phone.

So, I tell doctors to use a more common approach, such as cosmetic dentistry, for example, as an analogy. Why? Because unlike cosmetic surgery, most people have had their teeth done at some point. Their brains have something it can remember, picture and relate to.

So when asked for a quote over the phone, doctors will say: “Just like a dentist, I can’t give an estimate over the phone without any X-rays of your teeth” or “without the knowledge of how many cavities you really have.”

Marketers are certainly in a similar position. Many tend to communicate in a language that only a few understand. If you’re a programmer selling your services to business owners, and your copy is laced with technical jargon that only geeks will understand, you will obviously do very poorly.

You must therefore mold your message in a way that it can be easily understood by your target market. Speak their language!

If your market consists of artists, use art examples. If your market consists of managers, use business analogies. For example, you sell customer service consulting to florists.

You can say: “Clients are like fresh-cut roses; they need to be handled efficiently. But if handled improperly, they can prick your business or simply wilt away.”

Here’s a recent example.

One website I recently critiqued sold “microdermabrasion” skincare lotion. It’s a facial scrub that smoothes away wrinkles. But the problem is the fact that she only used the term “microdermabrasion.” However, nobody understood that. The only benefit mentioned was “skin regeneration.”

So I realized that her lotion offers three main benefits.

It reduces the appearance of wrinkles,
It comes in a easy-to-use homecare kit,
And it’s gentle on skin, or “pH balanced.”
But these are NOT benefits let alone ideas her target market can easily appreciate. Granted, they may understand what these are, and they likely understand what “microdermabrasion” is. But they don’t understand what those benefits are at an intimate level. So, I told her to change it to:

“Reverse the aging process and give your skin a youthful radiance with our non-acidic, non-greasy facelift in a jar! Imagine, no inconvenient clinics. No risks associated with harsh chemicals peels or injections. No costly doctors or surgeries. Get beautiful skin in hours in the comfort of your own home! It’s like the power of a sandblaster applied with the gentleness of velvet glove!”

Of course, there are many more ways of applying upwords to your sales copy. Here are some brief examples of how to mold your message in order to communicate more effectively …

1) Repetitious Words

As the adage goes, “Repetition is the parent of learning.” Repetition aids comprehension and increases retention, especially of complex or critical ideas. But the objective is not to repeat the same words over and over. It’s to use different examples to illustrate your point and drive the idea home.

To that end, substitute certain words with synonyms and add new pieces of information each time the idea is repeated. Here’s an example to show you. In order to drive the idea that privacy policies on a website help to increase sales, it can be repeated with:

“Privacy policies promote purchases,”
“Privacy statements increase sales,”
“Confidentiality is a key to online success,”
“Posting a privacy policy is profitable,” etc.
2) Emotional Words

Again, words are not messages in themselves. They are symbols. Different words mean different things to different people. As such, they can be interpreted differently. While several words can be used to communicate a single message, your choice of words is the most important decision you will ever make. Words can actually alter the impact of your message. For example:

Instead of “cost,” say “investment,”
Instead of beautiful “teeth,” say beautiful “smiles,”
Instead of “skinny,” say “slim” or “slender,”
Instead of “products” or “services,” say “solutions,”
Instead of “cost-effective,” say “return on investment,”
And instead of “house,” say “home.”
3) Positive Words

As my friend and copywriter, Rachel McAlpine, often says, “Avoid using negative words — say what it is, not what it isn’t.” I agree. Rachel is absolutely right on the money.

Maxwell Maltz, who wrote the bestseller “Psycho-Cybernetics,” states that the brain is a goal-seeking organ. It needs a goal in order to function. For example, if I told you to NOT think of a white carnation, you will have hard time since your brain needs a goal. It will naturally picture what it is supposed to avoid. The mind needs a reference point. A visual equivalent.

On the other hand, if I asked you to think of a pink carnation instead of a white one, you will think of a pink carnation. (And you won’t think of a white one!) I gave your mind a goal rather than taking one away from it.

By stating what something isn’t can be counterproductive since it is still directing the mind, albeit in the opposite way. If I told you that dental work is painless for example, you’ll still focus on the word “pain” in “painless.”

Here are some examples of using positive words:

Instead of saying “inexpensive,” say “economical,”
Instead of saying “this procedure is painless,” say “there’s little discomfort” or “it’s relatively comfortable,”
And instead of saying “this software is error-free” or “foolproof,” say “this software is consistent” or “stable.”
One of the most negative words we use is the word “but.” “Buts” can turn any message, which in essence may be positive, into a negative. Plus, a statement followed by the word “but” subtly communicates to others that what was said up to that point was a lie and what follows is the truth.

Do you remember when a former girlfriend or boyfriend dumped you? They probably said: “You’re a really nice guy and I really like going out with you, but…” (I’m sure you know the rest.) Consequently, leave the “but” out. Rather, use “and” and then focus on the positive.

For example, you’re a website designer. Instead of saying to your client, “It’s a great website but expensive,” say “it’s a great website AND worth every cent.” Instead of, “it’s a great website but it’s going to take at least a month to create it,” say “it’s a great website AND it will only take thirty days to get it up and running.” Can you see the difference?

We all come from different backgrounds. Each individual has a unique education, experience and environment. They all condition our thinking. So use analogies, metaphors and imagery in your copy that will make your message easier to grasp by that person’s set of circumstances.

As Jack Trout once said…

“A word is worth a thousand pictures.”

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The days where laptops for gaming were a small market are disappearing really fast. The sales were in no terms really amazing but they did bring in great profit on each system than others. Regardless of that everyone most likely wanted one. Maybe they were never the most practical but I still believe they were the best laptop computers. Although they did get people thrilled I do not believe they sold well because few people really buy laptop computers that are expensive. Things look set to shift though because now the gaming notebooks market has caught the eye of larger brands.

Competitive pricing tactics are not typical is this sector so tier 1 manufacturers could be scooping tons of profit. Margins have been so narrow recently that this is a good chance to get more cash by retailing computers. Additionally they are aware they can induce us to buy laptop computers like these more easily than small companies. In my point of view this could probably damage smaller resellers if they do not separate their usp. With the cash at their disposal they could effortlessly get rid of smaller competition. Obviously the association of a well known brand name comes into use here.

I guess its a joke that because it comes with a brand name they are seamlessly considered the best laptop computers. This is one opportunity the smaller companies need to apply to their advantage. In my point of view being able to choose the components you desire could be a deal maker. These kinds of buyers more often then not are well grounded in the technology and can compare spec for spec. If you’re buying the laptop for gaming then surely the performance matters the most consideration.

From a consumer point of view this is all a positive situation. The competitiveness between the large players should drive prices down when they seek to distinguish from each other. I mention that with a feeling of doubt however. Technology is continuously getting better and the latest innovations will usually be pricey initially. The multinational manufacturers have already entered the gaming laptop computers sector so we’ll have to wait and observe what the outcome is I guess.

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The holidays can be hectic and stressful. But honestly, they don’t have to be. If you put an organized plan in place to help you get through the holidays you will find that you are less stressed out than you ever imagined.

For children the holidays seem to take forever to arrive. The time between Thanksgiving and all the holidays in December goes by at a snails pace. But as the parents, the adults, we know full well that the time between Thanksgiving and the December holidays flies by at the speed of sound.

Only yesterday my kids and husband informed me that this is their last week of school and work before all of them have 2 weeks off for the holiday. That means that Christmas is less than two weeks away. Unbelievable.

So, with the holidays beating down on our doors how are we to get through the entire season calmly and with a holiday spring in our step? The answer is organization.

If you haven’t already sat down right after Thanksgiving to make up your plan of attack for the holiday season then you need to do so now. It’s not too late.

What you need to do is write down all the things that still need to be done. List all the presents that still need to be bought, and put a date next to each one for when you need to buy them and wrap them by. Some gifts will be given ON the exact holiday, some will need to be given out before, or even after the holiday itself.

After you’ve listed all the gifts that still need to be bought, and the time they need to be bought by, be sure to put down the store you need to go to as well.

Next list all the activities that still need to be attended to this holiday season. All the cards that still need to be sent out. All the parties that still need to be enjoyed.

After you have your entire holiday list written out sit down with a calendar…your planner, your wall calendar, even the month of December that you print out on your computer will work for this.

Start filling up the calendar with all the things from your list. Group activities together based on free time and location. If you still need to do gift shopping group all the stores together that are near one another and tackle them together.

Perhaps if you still have holiday cards to get out you can schedule an evening after dinner for the entire family to sit down and work on them together. This will help the cards get done so much faster, and actually will mean a lot to the people who open the card to find the cute chicken scratch of your 4 year old in it.

Be sure to schedule any food shopping you may have for the holidays as well, and schedule it early enough to be sure that you can get all of the needed items for your dishes, in case you have to go to a few different stores. A lot of stores will run out of certain key holiday ingredients this time of year, forcing you to visit another store or two in search of them. So schedule your food shopping early enough.

Another activity you can schedule out is some of the food preparation itself. Can anything you plan on making be made ahead and stored or put in the freezer? When you have little pockets of time in your schedule work on these items.

By having your holiday activities, chores and items all scheduled out down to the minute detail you will be assured that not only will your holiday season run smoothly, not only will you NOT forget to do something this year, but you will also find that you sail through the holiday season without all the usual stress and headache. You will have a better holiday attitude in general.

Also, if you are just getting around to making this list now, with less than 2 weeks until Christmas, be sure to promise yourself to make this list right after Thanksgiving next year. You will be even happier and less stressed out next year if you do so.

One last tip…you can still shop online for your holiday gift giving. Many places will not only ship the items directly to your recipient, but many will also wrap the present and include a card with whatever you want to have printed in it. I do a lot of my shopping online, it is a wonderful time saver, and I have never had even one problem with gift giving this way.

Happy Holidays to everyone…and may you have a healthy and organized New Year.

Kerry Flinders
Organizing Queen!

Copyright 2005 Kerry Flinders

The author Kerry Flinders is the owner of Personal Organizing Solutions located in Southern California. Kerry and her company are dedicated to helping others organize their clutter and their lives, eliminating unnecessary stress and helping the client to find more time in their day for the things they love. Kerry is the author of the book “Organizing With NO Budget”. You can sign up for Kerry’s F~REE Organizing Newsletter, or request her F~REE Organizing Tip-Pak by visiting their website at http://www.personalorganizingsolutions.com.

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I have spoken about various games we play in relationships. The games that are mostly negative drain the relationship of its charm and effectively kill all the love and care that partners can have for each other. Here is one more such game that is played in relationships. It is called - please I am not at fault. Don’t blame me. Or tell me what I shall do, and I will do that. Unsaid part- you know very well that I will never do what you advise, but blame you after everything fails.

Partners who have been lucky to get a partner who tolerates a lot generally play this game. In this relationship The game playing partner knows that all will be tolerated and the poor partner will try his/her best to set things right. Why should I bother at all? These are lazy partners. These are dishonest partners. These are destructive partners. They can extract life away from a charming individual and make him/her feel guilty and helpless for no fault. They destroy the relationship.

In such a relationship what is the remedy for such situations? First the victim has to understand the game that is being played. After that the victim should get away from taking any part in the game. Once the victim refuses to get persecuted, the abuser will have trouble playing the game. Either they will have to mend their ways or the relationship will break down.

The author C.D.Mohatta writes articles, advice and ideas at http://www.yourromanceguide.com/ on topics like love, dating, marriage, relationships, break-ups, etc. He also writes for screen-savers and desktop wallpapers at http://www.screene.com/ on topics like nature, spirituality, motivation, love-romance, holidays, animals, etc. The third site associated with the author is http://www.yourfungames.com/ - it has free flash games which one can play online.

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